So Mommy goggles started this post about me. She has let some random people post that they know this and that. She moderates all her posts, and did not even let someone who wanted to question her, allow to post. Yet she lets comments from people with no credible backing to back her. Having people who do not know me or you say they know about our dealings is plain stupid. Seriously, I live in Oregon and you somewhere back east. Yet all your friends know me and Kristin like we live in the same town. I know you have a big following through momdot.com, but some of you need to get a life. Stop hiding behind words and lies.
Here is her post, that she moderates. Moderating is the same as hiding something. She has to because she knows she has screwed a lot of people over and they may be itching to tell their story.
http://www.mommygoggles.com/pot-kettle-black-mean-anything/
I am sorry that I have had to go this far. I pretty much explained my situation and Kristin’s. Kristin has nothing to deal with this because she does not need it. Me however, I love a challenge. I am a political science major and minor in law and legal studies with a year left. I love to expose false facts and false statements. And anyone who threatens anyone with the police, I think need a rude awakening.
This is just another one of Tanya’s methods of trying to create a lie. Tanya knows what she is doing, and you think you can trick people? You need to practice a little better transparency and honesty. You know I am right and this is all you can do now. You are running out of things to pull.
About Del
Hi Del,
Thanks for stopping by and leaving some comments. I have read some of your posts and completely understand your point of view now. I do spend some time in the forum you mentioned on my blog. I have been working very hard over the past two months to get away from the copy paste reviewing. I’m writing my own thoughts and including information that is just information facts that sponsors want in the posts.
I’m sure I have a lot of room for improvement and I probably didn’t do enough research on my FTC article, I know there are a lot of facts that bloggers do not understand and when I did the research I did I found some answers to questions that a lot of people are asking. I was hoping that by writing my article people will see that if they go to theses other blogs they will find more information. Maybe I should re-read my post as I wrote it before going to bed and while I was in a bad mood which was a bad idea on my part.
I know that being a part of Mom Dot will bring the attacks my way just for being associated with her/it/the collective. When I went on one of my blogging trips I was warned to be very careful with my association. I suppose one day I’ll wake up and realize not everyone is going to get a long. I do live in REALITY and not my head.
Sorry, this was kind of long and it’s ok if you don’t post my comment. Hopefully you read it and if not, that’s what the happy delete button is for.
“Hey, I was attacked last night by #STITCHBLADE on twitter. She does not know me or anything, but she kept on with the insults. That is how momdot works. You mess with one (no matter what the facts are) and many will join the bandwagon.”
Seriously? Again you sound like a whiny baby! I did not attack you. I said that you looked stupid with all the remarks you were making. That is a fact…plain and simple.
An attack? Dude, where are your balls? Grow up!
As far as momdot goes, momdot does not shape my opinions. I am who I am, and apparently you can’t grasp that. No one pointed me in your direction. I am not acting on behalf of anyone. I did not attack you. I told you that you look stupid. My opinion was made from seeing your “blog” and “twitter” posts.
I think it is a shame that a man is acting like this. No one really gives a crap about this. People just see a supposed grown man crying like a baby…..
Again, you just showed how much of a moron you are. Your comment is up there on the site. I wouldn’t want people to miss out on seeing what an idiot you are.
I’m not sure that I am the only one who has noticed that stitchblade/ not so average mama is contradicting herself? She is trashing on you for speaking your mind. (which if I’m not mistaken is still a right we have) She is doing it too. How can she chastise someone for something that she herself is doing?
And fyi not so average mama, he is no less of a man for speaking his mind whether you agree with it or not. I think it is very honorable for him to stick up for his woman.
And I agree Del, that face to face shit is laughable. People get so worked up over people they have never met. LOL!
Wow, another one…seriously can you not read and comprehend the written words in front of you? I didn’t trash anyone. I simply stated he was an idiot for going on and on trashing someone, talking about her family etc. He should simply get over it. Also, I pointed out that this is sad behavior for a man. A man attacking a woman on the internet…
Standing up for his wife? I’m glad my husband has enough confidence in me to allow me to fight my own battles.
Yes I am responding to him, but here is where the difference is:
I am not rattled, I am not angry, I am AMUSED. He is cracking me up. It is a boring rainy day. This is purely entertainment. Shoot, I haven’t even been pushed hard enough to cuss yet
Tootles!
You contradicted yourself…again. You said “I didn’t trash anyone.”
And the very next sentence says ” I simply stated he was an idiot”
I have to admit I chuckled when I read that. I realize that you are trying to be witty and all that, but you are making yourself sound dumb.
His wife has stood up for herself many many times. The fact that he is standing up for her does not mean that he doesn’t have confidence in her. It means that he has had enough and he has something to say about it. I have no idea why you are bringing gender into this. Man or woman, we are allowed to have an opinion. I don’t see it as him attacking a woman, I see it as he is confronting an issue with a PERSON that has cause A LOT of problems.
You may know her personally, i’m willing to bet that you only know her though pixels. I know Del and Kristin personally. Therefore I know the back story and all of the things that mommygoggles has done and said.
And the fact that you have not cussed, well good for you. It is a sign of maturity, your progressing nicely.
Again..stating a fact about someone is not trashing them. The fact is, he is an idiot. Now if I had said “he is a smelly idiot”, that may be trash talking. Because honestly, I don’t know if the guy smells or not. Stating he is an idiot is factual, factual to me anyhow, since I came to this conclusion from the way he was acting.
Try as you might…try try try.
Off to Target now….
By they way, before I leave…
I said I don’t know anyone’s side to the story
How can you state a fact about someone that you don’t know anything about????
A fact is a pragmatic truth, a statement that can, at least in theory, be checked and confirmed.
You stated yourself that you don’t know either side of the story, why then did you write a blog about it? Why are you making statements on twitter? Why are you commenting on his blog? Maybe you could have any opinion if you actually knew what you were talking about.
Just because you stumbled upon his post does not mean that you have to comment.
I am not trying to lump momdot.com. But when there is a problem wit 1 person, then it seems a lot of momdot.com people join in on an attack. This has happened with several momdot people. Also momdot people, you should not be proud that you generate traffic and buzz over drama.
Seriouisly you call yourself mothers, but you act like mean school girls. Hey, I was attacked last night by #STITCHBLADE on twitter. She does not know me or anything, but she kept on with the insults. That is how momdot works. You mess with one (no matter what the facts are) and many will join the bandwagon.
I noticed on Tanyas attack of me, that some momdot people are saying I am attacking them all. My posts are directed at Tanya only. I put momdot in there because I keep getting messages and threats from her friends who are part of momdot (also I have had known about some problems with Thrasha from a year ago, so this may also be a factor that is making MD people join with Tanya even more).
I will never moderate a post. I dont find that the right thing to do. We are civil.
Too bad more people cannot seem as level headed as you, and understand that a lot more happens then just what people say.
And last night before I did this post I screenshotted Tanyas comments and the page changes today. I picked up the screen shot to try and set people up from Tanya. And of course it changes again. Just stick with one thing Tanya. Also you should post my site to help you with more traffic, I think I am right up there with you in numbers for the last 2 days.
Wow, I dont moderate, because I dont have anything to hide. Your Tanya’s friend. I will not moderate my posts. Your all allowed to say what you want. I posted in your post and you did not allow it. You had your words.
As far as you and your thoughts, they are pointless. You keep trying to “hurt my feelings?” Get real. How old are you?
Just post my website in your article where your talking about someone without saying who they are. I live in Oregon so stop with the face to face crap. It makes you look stupid yourself.
ok, great…good for you.
WOW dude….did you page Dr Ama or what? I have to say so funny watching a bunch of ninny women rattle back and forth in a comment on a blog post to one another! I love Einsteins conclusion, or rather her hypothesis, and Sandra…WHEW WEE!! Diggin’ her, go girl! In my opinion you aren’t going to get anywhere with any of them on anything, they think they are a bunch of divine prima-donnas when really they enjoy the chaos and drama. I would just smile and walk away, that is how they all roll. They attack anyone for having an original opinion that is not shared by them. You saw the attack I got on MomSpark…and then did you see MomSpark tweet up about how she was going to DM about my comment. Right…supportive community. I dig my little island of paradise, I’d just kick back and ignore it all, besides…you are in a dick measuring contest with a bunch of strap ons. I would ignore it. But hey…that’s me.
Now go spend some time with that hawt chick and beautiful girls!
ok,, see you later now…You have a mouth on you and I think we all understand that…
Nothing needs to be explained. Everyone can read my site and Tanya’s (mommygoggles.com) post. This is the same information she tried to use to make Kristin look bad months and months ago. After that did not work, she went to PR companies and made up lies to the about Kristin. Not everyone believes Tanya. A lot of people lie, and she is one of them.
Kristin does not want anything to do with this, but unlike her, I don’t allow people to go threatening and pushing other people around, regardless if I know them or not.
You cannot continue to lie, otherwise they catch up with you. This is a lesson you should learn at a young age.
OK, that’s it, I will delete not so sane mama again. You keep up with the same sayings and words. You keep using 4 grade level words to try and belittle me, and you have made this point over and over and over.
She did not stumble on my post, she has been watching (in their words stalking) me through twitter. Just like 5 of tanyas other friends, she approached me on twitter telling me basically to stop talking.
Maybe tanya told them to get me, but regardless they know both sides. Plain and simple. I understand the human emotion of faithfulness, but this falls far from that. They are trying to be mean because they think I am a little girl? Sorry, but I am not, and your not hurting my feelings. You can even ask my 4 year old girl.
Wow, your not scared of the backlash, wait you had the nerve to send me the screen shot of your post they would not allow.
Backlash? What are they going to come teepee my Ash tree? Egg my car? Call me names? Or better yet crank call my house? I’m skeeered.
PUH LEASE. In the words of Dennis Leary “I don’t mean to get off on a rant here…”
Sad really that a bunch of grown women (and men..hee hee) are going back and forth destroying one another’s livelihood. Destroying reputations, calling people names, setting wonderful examples for their children. The internet is FOREVER, just because you hit DELETE does not mean the information is gone forever and one day children will read how petty their moms and dads were acting on the net. And why? Why are these grown adults acting like this…really? Because someone has a better looking blog? Better content? Better opportunities?
GREAT!!
I know I have seen plenty of better blogs, better content, better opportunities. Does that make me go…”Hey you, you bitch, Eff you!” No, I commend that blogger, leave some comment love, continue reading, continue to work harder at building my blog, my blog brand, my name, and at the same time….building up other bloggers by leaving comment love, helping to RT, reblog what they are doing. THAT IS A COMMUNITY!! I surely don’t pick and choose who I comment on either, on who will bring me the most traffic or best net karma, nope, I comment everywhere, because who doesn’t enjoy some great feedback.
So everyone can keep on drinking the tainted Kool-Aid, but I prefer my Vodka Tonic with a lime. Because I don’t need to reinforce to people that I am “keeping it real” that “I am a community” or “Top blogger” because really? WTF does that mean anyway? NOTHING, just a pompous way to flaunt your peacock feathers, while at the same time ruining someones livelihood, feelings, and little by little destroying your own integrity and karma by continuing on with negativity, by feeding the beast.
As for me emailing you the comment, I did so to show you that you CAN comment and not be nasty. I really don’t know either of you, nor know the history, but what I do know…is the whole situation is CRAP. On both ends. I think Tanya made a weak claim of plagiarism and plagiarizing is a HUGE thing to call out, especially in an academic sense. But you need to go to college to really grasp the severity of plagiarism and the true meaning and depth. Spouting out your pie hole a friendly email is bogus, spouting out that “well she did it” is weak at best. Get original, get some integrity, respect, hell grow a set of balls and play nice for fucks sake.
(Stepping off my soap box…sorry for the extended comment version)
I hear you and here is my opinion take it or leave it I won’t go blog about you.
Eventually PR will get tired of the same blogger or gaggle of bloggers crying wolf about others, eventually they will see the filthy game. If they don’t….Are you really willing to continue to work with someone (or a PR firm) that is not willing to take you serious and respect you enough to come to you? I know if I was put in any situation and that company pulled promotions from me I would ask and tell them “Hey I am sorry YOU THINK you heard this on good authority, this is not the case. However, I appreciate the opportunities awarded me, I have always enjoyed working with you and the firms you represent and maybe in the future we can reconcile these conditions and continue to promote XYZ product” that way you are not the asshole, you are not looking guilt trying to prove the situation otherwise. Furthermore, this PR dubiously had no loyalty to who the snitch was, if they had the gall to bus toss her so easily, clearly no love lost.
As for the police threat….chihuahuas always have a bigger bark than their bite, so do coyotes, which is why they have to run in a pack. Alone, they are harmless and defenseless, I would let it all go and move on, they really enjoy that you spin about them. You can’t control what they do, so ignore them and do the best by your family like you have always done, they will always find someone to bring down so they look better.
This is more than the plagiarizing accusation. She went and may continue to go to PR firms and make up lies to ruin a certain someones reputation. The history before this is just that, but the new things she continues to do, creates even more anger and frustration. You know how hard it is to find out who is going around telling lies about you? Luckily the right PR person was asked and they admitted to her lies (i am not mentioning no names as of yet, because they said to let things die down and they will talk again.) Still that is not cool. This is what set me up to even having her as a thought in my head. Then when she threatened me with the police for being in the #nestlefamily tweet, that set me off.
I am pretty done with them. I just like to leave it up. There are still people who are catching wind of this. Plus I think my video of Thrisha is funny. Seriously, I have never seen grown women make videos where they are singing to themselves in the mirror (watching yourself in a video singing is like signing to the mirror.) That is the kind of stuff girls do in middle school. Hey, I guess her following find them great and all, but I think they make her look like a little girl wanting to pretend play. My video is nasty, but you know what, when I am 10 years older I will laugh at that video and ask myself, what the hell made me do that. I will remember this as the time where I had to defend lies and set a crazy blogger straight on the internet. This is like a little review blogger clique with kids v. me.
I still think all this is funny, because I know they want me to just keep quite (they told me this days ago) but I haven’t. They can say all they want about me, but since I dont know what they are saying (because its behind my back) then it cannot bother me. They are kind of chasing their own tail.